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September 8, 2010

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Here is a summary of information shared in a workshop on networking and small talk skills:

Four Goals of Networking

  1. Enjoy the moment
  2. Engage in satisfying connections with others
  3. Exchange information & ideas
  4. Explore future opportunities

Connect Using your 5 Senses

  • KNOSE: know names, make as many connections between face & name, and remember the second time you meet someone to GUESS their name!
  • EYES: make eye contact (it is more rare than you think!)
  • HANDS: hand hugs are an essential way to connect with a human being
  • MOUTH: your natural face is most likely a serious pose, so SMILE!
  • EARS: listen, listen, listen and don't just wait for your turn to talk

Other Networking Tips

  • Anticipate Mutual Benefit: remember that every person you cross paths with has a message for you, and you have a message for them
  • Accept Mistakes: you are going to screw up, and that is okay
  • Create Deposits: think of small, nice things to do for others
  • Practice Frequently: use those small moments before a meeting starts, or in the snack line to practice the art of small talk--this is a skill that improves with practice!
  • Play Host: even if it isn't your event, finding ways to reach out to others earns bonus points for later!
  • Focus on Commonalities: you have something in common with him/her, so dig until you find it
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